A loss you never want to have happen - Toyota GR86, 86, FR-S and Subaru BRZ Forum & Owners Community

NahumCC · 04-12-2016, 11:30 PM

Some of you may have known that my wife and I were expecting our 4th child in May as I mentioned it in a few threads (love my family). Unfortunately this also ended up being the most complicated and difficult pregnancy she has gone through. After being in Labor & Delivery about 10 times in the last 2 weeks for various issues and countless labs being done that kept coming back as normal our baby passed away some time overnight on the 9th into the 10th. She delivered Elijah James Cook at 0250 on the 11th. We spent a very emotional 14 hours with Eli before saying our good byes with both of our parents being able to see their 4th grandson from us.

While his passing was completely unexpected we know he is in a much better place. All we ask for are prayers in our time of mourning as we all cope with this.

As with any rainy day, which it has been doing non stop today, our little ray of sunshine were our 3 boys running up to mommy all excited to see her when we got home. Our middle boy delivered the smile we needed by declaring, as only any 4 year old can, when we started to explain what had occurred and telling them Elijah's name "I knew it was a boy!".

If any of you think its weird to be sharing something so personal it's because this helps me cope with it.

dvasqu01 · 04-12-2016, 11:35 PM

Sorry for the lost and best wishes bro I'll keep you in prayer

Yes I'll give you the rice noodle😘

04-12-2016, 11:56 PM

Hey man sorry for your loss.

If you need anyone to talk to shoot me a pm.

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soulreapersteve · 04-13-2016, 12:13 AM

Sending you good vibes and internet bro hug from Seattle.

Kaotic Lazagna · 04-13-2016, 12:22 AM

My condolences to you and your family.

Ultramaroon · 04-13-2016, 12:54 AM

From my family to yours, please accept our most sincere condolences.

Captain Snooze · 04-13-2016, 04:49 AM

Words are not enough but they are all we have.
My condolences.

covance · 04-13-2016, 10:26 AM

Very sorry for your loss

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rookie · 04-13-2016, 10:28 AM

My condolences.

MisterSheep · 04-13-2016, 10:33 AM

Sending internet hugs to you and your family..

cdrazic93 · 04-13-2016, 12:16 PM

I have no idea what it feels like to even have kids let alone have the devistating chance to loose them. I am truely sorry for your loss. Sharing stories are sometimes the best way to get the weight lifted off your shoulders.

Tcoat · 04-13-2016, 12:18 PM

jvincent · 04-13-2016, 01:03 PM

My sincerest condolences.

shiumai · 04-13-2016, 01:06 PM

my condolences.

04-12-2016, 11:30 PM	#1
NahumCC Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2014 Drives: 2013 FR-S 10 Series Location: Columbus, OH Posts: 349 Thanks: 41 Thanked 175 Times in 109 Posts Mentioned: 10 Post(s)	A loss you never want to have happen Some of you may have known that my wife and I were expecting our 4th child in May as I mentioned it in a few threads (love my family). Unfortunately this also ended up being the most complicated and difficult pregnancy she has gone through. After being in Labor & Delivery about 10 times in the last 2 weeks for various issues and countless labs being done that kept coming back as normal our baby passed away some time overnight on the 9th into the 10th. She delivered Elijah James Cook at 0250 on the 11th. We spent a very emotional 14 hours with Eli before saying our good byes with both of our parents being able to see their 4th grandson from us. While his passing was completely unexpected we know he is in a much better place. All we ask for are prayers in our time of mourning as we all cope with this. As with any rainy day, which it has been doing non stop today, our little ray of sunshine were our 3 boys running up to mommy all excited to see her when we got home. Our middle boy delivered the smile we needed by declaring, as only any 4 year old can, when we started to explain what had occurred and telling them Elijah's name "I knew it was a boy!". If any of you think its weird to be sharing something so personal it's because this helps me cope with it.

04-13-2016, 12:54 AM	#6
Ultramaroon not playing cards Join Date: Sep 2014 Drives: a 13 e8h frs Location: vantucky, wa Posts: 32,394 Thanks: 53,054 Thanked 37,230 Times in 19,309 Posts Mentioned: 1118 Post(s)	From my family to yours, please accept our most sincere condolences. __________________ service manuals

04-13-2016, 04:49 AM	#7
Captain Snooze Because compromise ® Join Date: Jan 2012 Drives: Red Herring Location: australia Posts: 7,830 Thanks: 4,058 Thanked 9,575 Times in 4,204 Posts Mentioned: 60 Post(s)	Words are not enough but they are all we have. My condolences. __________________ My car is completely stock except for all the mods.

04-13-2016, 12:16 PM	#11
cdrazic93 Junior Join Date: Aug 2013 Drives: a car Location: Probably at school Posts: 4,341 Thanks: 3,184 Thanked 2,512 Times in 1,502 Posts Mentioned: 20 Post(s)	I have no idea what it feels like to even have kids let alone have the devistating chance to loose them. I am truely sorry for your loss. Sharing stories are sometimes the best way to get the weight lifted off your shoulders. __________________ "Ah! What music! They could have never imagined, those pioneers who invented the automobile, that it would posses us like this, our imaginations, our dreams. Men love women, but even more than that, men love CARS!"-Lord Hesketh

04-13-2016, 12:18 PM	#12
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04-12-2016, 11:35 PM	#2
dvasqu01 Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2015 Drives: Scion FRS Whiteout Location: Gardena,Ca Posts: 949 Thanks: 272 Thanked 546 Times in 368 Posts Mentioned: 7 Post(s)	Sorry for the lost and best wishes bro I'll keep you in prayer Yes I'll give you the rice noodle😘

04-12-2016, 11:56 PM	#3
ButeraFRS Guest Posts: n/a Mentioned: Post(s)	Hey man sorry for your loss. If you need anyone to talk to shoot me a pm. Sent from my SM-G530W using Tapatalk

04-13-2016, 12:22 AM	#5
Kaotic Lazagna Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Drives: GR Corolla Location: Lathrop, CA Posts: 4,943 Thanks: 3,096 Thanked 3,028 Times in 1,865 Posts Mentioned: 40 Post(s)	My condolences to you and your family.

04-13-2016, 10:26 AM	#8
covance Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Drives: 2015 BRZ series.blue Location: VA Posts: 182 Thanks: 216 Thanked 59 Times in 40 Posts Mentioned: 0 Post(s)	Very sorry for your loss Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

04-13-2016, 10:28 AM	#9
rookie Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Drives: 1991 Formula Red NSX Location: Wisconsin Posts: 483 Thanks: 271 Thanked 430 Times in 209 Posts Mentioned: 4 Post(s)	My condolences.

04-13-2016, 01:03 PM	#13
jvincent Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2013 Drives: 2022 WRB BRZ Sport-Tech Location: Ottawa, Canada Posts: 1,746 Thanks: 131 Thanked 1,411 Times in 715 Posts Mentioned: 25 Post(s)	My sincerest condolences.

04-13-2016, 01:06 PM	#14
shiumai Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Drives: 2013 DGM BRZ, 2020 C8 Corvette Location: USofA! Posts: 1,763 Thanks: 963 Thanked 1,896 Times in 789 Posts Mentioned: 41 Post(s)	my condolences. __________________ My DGM BRZ vid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OL9OhxexAA My car journal thread: http://www.ft86club.com/forums/showthread.php?t=43402

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