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[Missy]

Originally Posted by Kelbyat07

lol I didn't mean go look for another girl, I meant talk to girls. Talking to other girls will keep your mind away from thinking about that certain person and it will give you boost of confidence that there are many girls out there. Anyone who goes out there and finds a relationship after a recent bad relationship is just asking for another heart break...

Lol I know, I was just screwing with you. We haven't talked in forever ya turd I gotta give you shit from time to time!

He doesn't seem like the type to go out and flirt with a bunch of girls, I could be wrong but I won't lie.. It kinda helps ease the bummy feeling.

[Kelbyat07]

Originally Posted by s2d4

The dude is a teenager.

With more experience.

[wallace03]

Originally Posted by Missy

Don't listen to @Kelbyat07 he knows nothing I say!! Lol

Whatever you do don't go out LOOKING for someone, it doesn't work that way. Just gotta be yourself and hang out with friends and meet people naturally. Whenever you try to find someone it usually never works out..

That's my plan, besides i stated in my OP that meeting/hooking up with girls isn't gonna make it better. I've met a lot of people in my life, and she really is a girl that really only comes around once in a lifetime. However, perfection is in the eye of the beholder.

[s2d4]

Originally Posted by Kelbyat07

With more experience.

With what?

[Missy]

Originally Posted by wallace03

That's my plan, besides i stated in my OP that meeting/hooking up with girls isn't gonna make it better. I've met a lot of people in my life, and she really is a girl that really only comes around once in a lifetime. However, perfection is in the eye of the beholder.

Yessir, you know the deal and I'm sure you'll find someone who will treat you amazingly and make you feel this way again, if not her. You seem sweet enough! :p

[Missy]

Originally Posted by s2d4

The dude is a teenager.

I know, he thinks he's all "high and mighty" and shit. Lol

[bkblitzed]

Wanna know a legendary move to pick up girls? When you see a hot girl do an ebrake turn. Its been proven 100% on top gear.

[Missy]

Originally Posted by bkblitzed

Wanna know a legendary move to pick up girls? When you see a hot girl do an ebrake turn. Its been proven 100% on top gear.

Side note: if you ebrake into something it kills the lady boner immediately.
Haha

[n2oinferno]

Originally Posted by KCMachine

Long distance college relationships don't last.

She probably has feelings for you too.

Just continue to be close to her and be her friend and things will eventually work out.

I'm living proof that LDR can work. 'Course, mine wasn't college. It was a random paths crossing on the internet thing. No dating sites, neither of us looking. It started with a random comment that she, a stranger, left on a blog I had back in the day. Got to know her for several months and then went to visit. We spent two years apart with me flying down as often as my budget allowed, which when working part time in retail isn't a whole lot at all. After what seemed like an eternity I moved to the south, we got an apartment near her college, and we lived together for four years until I finally asked her to marry me. Been married for five years now, have a kid with a second due next month. Life's absolutely wonderful, to put it bluntly.

It takes a lot of trust and a lot of communication. And there were times I was sure it was going to fail. But I persevered more than I ever have before and it worked out for us.

OP, the best advice I can give you is hang in there. If you can stand being around her, be her friend. I know how much that can suck and hurt, but better to see her happy than not see her at all, sometimes. If you can't, don't do it. Don't torture yourself pining for an unlikely situation. There are plenty of women out there, and even though your heart may say they're not "the one," they're not this girl you have in front of you, there's no justifiable way you can ever know that. Because you haven't even met her yet. Not looking seems to be the best way to bump into them.

The differing beliefs is the biggest red flag, imo. I have a little experience with that and it's a great way to destroy a relationship.

[bkblitzed]

I know a dude that was in a long distance. He lived in cali and she was in japan for like a year or two in college. They were both highschool sweet hearts lol