Random Thoughts - Part Deux [NO POLITICS]

[new2subaru]

Originally Posted by Ultramaroon

When she's the right one, no matter how bad the annoyances, the thought of running just doesn't happen. I've run plenty and for good reason.

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[Sapphireho]

Originally Posted by Ultramaroon

When she's the right one, no matter how bad the annoyances, the thought of running just doesn't happen. I've run plenty and for good reason.

When she's not......

[Ultramaroon]

Originally Posted by Sapphireho

When she's not......

...you run when the sink fills up.

[cjd]

Originally Posted by Cole

From what I recall, lots of yelling, in addition to many threats of physical violence upon recruits. Not sure I can get away with that there.

Though, after shooting the shit with a coworker, he's given me the idea of gaslighting my girlfriend at the least, with the roommate as a stretch goal.

Go there and the relationship is done. You'll never recover... Abuse is abuse, and is destructive to everyone involved, but piles up over time for the victim. Gaslighting is one of the worst.

Sounds like there's growing up to do all around.

[Cole]

Originally Posted by cjd

Go there and the relationship is done. You'll never recover... Abuse is abuse, and is destructive to everyone involved, but piles up over time for the victim. Gaslighting is one of the worst.

Sounds like there's growing up to do all around.

Was tongue in cheek.

Interestingly enough, the coworker who joked about that, has a fiancee who is currently in her second year of her Psychology PhD

[ichitaka05]

Haven't really posted here in a while. It's been hella crazy life, so barely cleaning up the sale thread.

Update w my life.
- This year's 86EXPO ended successfully. Made over $600 in donation for Make-a-Wish charity.
- After crazy home hunting and other nightmare stuff, finally found a place & this weekend, will be moving.
- Wedding stuff is set and paid. I'm pretty sure there will be last min stuff need to buy, but not too worried.

I'm just hoping everything will slow down by end of this month...

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Haven't really posted here in a while. It's been hella crazy life, so barely cleaning up the sale thread.

Update w my life.
- This year's 86EXPO ended successfully. Made over $600 in donation for Make-a-Wish charity.
- After crazy home hunting and other nightmare stuff, finally found a place & this weekend, will be moving.
- Wedding stuff is set and paid. I'm pretty sure there will be last min stuff need to buy, but not too worried.

I'm just hoping everything will slow down by end of this month...

Welcome back ......

CONGRATULATIONS on becoming a homeowner ........

Be sure your homeowners insurance is in place.

I suggest you change all the locks on the outside doors and re-program the electric garage opener (if it has one).


humfrz

[Tcoat]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Haven't really posted here in a while. It's been hella crazy life, so barely cleaning up the sale thread.

Update w my life.
- This year's 86EXPO ended successfully. Made over $600 in donation for Make-a-Wish charity.
- After crazy home hunting and other nightmare stuff, finally found a place & this weekend, will be moving.
- Wedding stuff is set and paid. I'm pretty sure there will be last min stuff need to buy, but not too worried.

I'm just hoping everything will slow down by end of this month...

So we should all receive our wedding invitations shortly?

[ichitaka05]

Originally Posted by humfrz

Welcome back ......

CONGRATULATIONS on becoming a homeowner ........

Be sure your homeowners insurance is in place.

I suggest you change all the locks on the outside doors and re-program the electric garage opener (if it has one).


humfrz

Thanks, I've changed the locks. Bought smart locks, so I can open without key.

Insurance is done & Judy finished installing new smoke detectors on all 3 floors. Fiancé is currently resetting pin for the garage. After this, we gonna replace all the light bulbs w LED to help save power. I've ordered Nest & should be coming in next week.

Did I miss anything else?

Originally Posted by Tcoat

So we should all receive our wedding invitations shortly?

If you want one, I can PM you. I ain't snail mailing to you. Those physical invitation ain't cheap.

Wedding registry can be found in FT86SF & CSG lmao jk

[nextcar]

Originally Posted by Ultramaroon

GTFO. The longer you wait, the worse it will get. Learn from this. Remember that anxiety? Learn to trust it. Our guts are way smarter than our brains.

Originally Posted by Ultramaroon

When she's the right one, no matter how bad the annoyances, the thought of running just doesn't happen. I've run plenty and for good reason.

Originally Posted by new2subaru

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Originally Posted by Sapphireho

When she's not......

If only someone had warned @Cole when he first expressed doubts prior to moving in....

I'll show myself out now.

[nextcar]

The happiest place on earth looks a little deserted today...

[krayzie]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Thanks, I've changed the locks. Bought smart locks, so I can open without key.

You sure this is safe?

[ichitaka05]

Originally Posted by krayzie

You sure this is safe?

Not sure how safe it is. But my fiancé's fam have been using same kind for a long time, but never had any problem. I think, it's equally safe as normal locks.

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Thanks, I've changed the locks. Bought smart locks, so I can open without key.

Insurance is done & Judy finished installing new smoke detectors on all 3 floors. Fiancé is currently resetting pin for the garage. After this, we gonna replace all the light bulbs w LED to help save power. I've ordered Nest & should be coming in next week.

Did I miss anything else?

Is your new property a condo or duplex or a house .... ??

If there is a condo or HOA (Home Owners Association), I suggest you contact the associations president and introduce yourself and obtain a copy of the last homeowners/condo association meeting minutes (you don't want any pending association dues or levies sneaking up on you). Also, obtain a copy of the CC&Rs.

I suggest you locate the main gas and water and electrical panel, to be able to shut off in case of an emergency. The water shutoff is usually under the house or in a closet (nothing like trying to find the water shutoff quickly if something starts leaking).

NOW, your new wife will want it painted on the inside, all new furniture and all new window coverings......

So, just sit back, relax and enjoy your new home .......


humfrz