just to let you guys know . . .

[YoshiMike13]

So, I have been dating my BF, Chris, for over a month now. He made me realize thatI am GAY, not bisexual. I have dated 2 girls and another girl led me on (telling me that she wanted to date me, and then quittin on me when I was gonna ask her out.) My first gf cheated on me, and the second one only dated me to see if I was straight, which I wasn't cuz I was in the closet. I still am to most people. I feel like I cannot sepak to girls the way I can with guys. Girls tend to not treat me right, and frankly, I am fine without them. Just wnated to let you know that you guys have a gay peerson on the forum. I hope you don't think of me as a freak though. I am not attracted to fem guys. If I am gay, and I want a guy, then I would date a masculine man (much like mmy bf) so I am not one of those guys who talks and acts female.

[b.e]

Yoshi, you have a friend who thinks he has a sense of humor. You should let him know he doesn't.

[shadoquad]

Not a freak. Just a duder. Do what makes you happy in life. Come on here and talk about cars.

[Asterisked Accolade]

Originally Posted by YoshiMike13

So, I have been dating my BF, Chris, for over a month now. He made me realize thatI am GAY, not bisexual. I have dated 2 girls and another girl led me on (telling me that she wanted to date me, and then quittin on me when I was gonna ask her out.) My first gf cheated on me, and the second one only dated me to see if I was straight, which I wasn't cuz I was in the closet. I still am to most people. I feel like I cannot sepak to girls the way I can with guys. Girls tend to not treat me right, and frankly, I am fine without them. Just wnated to let you know that you guys have a gay peerson on the forum. I hope you don't think of me as a freak though. I am not attracted to fem guys. If I am gay, and I want a guy, then I would date a masculine man (much like mmy bf) so I am not one of those guys who talks and acts female.

You lucky bastard. I've gone through all that crap with women, too-- and i'm still straight! So i have to keep suffering through it!

[SVTSHC]

Sounds like you just got trolled bro...

But if this is legit, just do you bro. No one here will judge ya for it.

[GuySmily]

Girls just look and feel SOOOO good though.

What's your age/experience anyway? If you're giving up just because of these bad experiences, I'd tell you to keep trying. Of course it's easier to relate to / talk to / hang around with your dude friends, but I wouldn't give up on girls just because so many of them are evil. I'm not anti-gay or anything, but I get a certain completeness with my girlfriend that I don't think I could get from my guy friends.

On another note, it almost seems like going gay has become trendy, at least around here. Not saying that you're just doing it to be cool, but I see it happen often enough...

[DieDriving]

I believe no 1 was born gay, it is a choice which I'm not going to debate here....imaging as a kid growing up with gay parents, it must be very "confused"....God (or whatever religion you believe in) made men/women for a reason....again, this is not an anti gay post, just my .02c

[YoshiMike13]

If any of you guys are anti-gay, which its seems that you guys are not, I wouldn't care because an anti gay won't make me change my decision. Lol

No, I'm not giving up on girls; I just don't like them anymore. I have been bisexual since like 7th grade and I'm a senior now. I have had preference for male since freshman year. I guess I was just in denial for the whole time, but since being with chris, I am accepting my sexuality. I did not understand b.e.'s post at all. Someone explain it please.

Its not like I woke up this mprning and was like "oh shit I'm gay" lol. Its been going on for a while

[shadoquad]

Originally Posted by YoshiMike13

If any of you guys are anti-gay, which its seems that you guys are not, I wouldn't care because an anti gay won't make me change my decision. Lol

No, I'm not giving up on girls; I just don't like them anymore. I have been bisexual since like 7th grade and I'm a senior now. I have had preference for male since freshman year. I guess I was just in denial for the whole time, but since being with chris, I am accepting my sexuality. I did not understand b.e.'s post at all. Someone explain it please.

Its not like I woke up this mprning and was like "oh shit I'm gay" lol. Its been going on for a while

I believe that b.e. thought you left yourself logged in and a friend trolled you by using your account to start this thread.

Regardless, be happy with who you are and don't let haters get you down.

[YoshiMike13]

NO NO NO NOOOOOOOOOO!!! This is 100% legit. This is me, mike, telling you guys all of this. I didn't get trolled. And yeah I am very happy with myslef and chris means the world to me. I don't even have a computer at my house. This topic was created on my android. I am gay and happy! Just like spongebob says he is ugly and proud, I am gay and proud.

Guys and girls are two totally different worlds and you won't know unless you experience it. And no, I'm not askingall of you to start dating the same sex, I am just saying that it is difference.

Also, if this thread sparks any heated arguement, I will ask for it to be deleted.

[ryude]

I think you're gay because you value friendship more than someone you can have kids with. The odds of finding an opposite sex partner who can be your friend is soooo rare. Why do you think married guys spend so much time with their guy friends? You might just be confused, but if you really are gay then more power to you and I hope you find happiness either way

[ahausheer]

Originally Posted by DieDriving

I believe no 1 was born gay, it is a choice which I'm not going to debate here....imaging as a kid growing up with gay parents, it must be very "confused"....God (or whatever religion you believe in) made men/women for a reason....again, this is not an anti gay post, just my .02c

So you chose to be straight? When did you make that decision?

''God made men and women to confuse the holly hell out of each other. God hates gays because they found a loophole. Those lucky bastards get to live and love someone that actually understands them. God wants us to be miserable and the gays are happy, have you ever met a mean, depressed, disgusting gay guy? No you haven't, that's why god hates them, because there happy''. --- Some comedian whose name escapes me.

To the OP: More power to you. When it comes to love, follow your own heart/desires. Don't let society put you down because of who you are.

[YoshiMike13]

Originally Posted by ahausheer

So you chose to be straight? When did you make that decision?

''God made men and women to confuse the holly hell out of each other. God hates gays because they found a loophole. Those lucky bastards get to live and love someone that actually understands them. God wants us to be miserable and the gays are happy, have you ever met a mean, depressed, disgusting gay guy? No you haven't, that's why god hates them, because there happy''. --- Some comedian whose name escapes me.

To the OP: More power to you. When it comes to love, follow your own heart/desires. Don't let society put you down because of who you are.

EXACTLY! I am not mad or depressed or anything, just happy! And happy for like the first time in my life. I live in a very broken home and I just need to graduate and get away from my parents for a little. I am happy, glad I have chris to call my own, and I sure as hell wouldn't change it for a thing!

[YoshiMike13]

Originally Posted by ryude

I think you're gay because you value friendship more than someone you can have kids with. The odds of finding an opposite sex partner who can be your friend is soooo rare. Why do you think married guys spend so much time with their guy friends? You might just be confused, but if you really are gay then more power to you and I hope you find happiness either way

I definitely agree with you. When I was with a girl, I had a relationship but with chris I have a relationship AND a friendship. Christopher and I are so close that half the time when we are on the phone we are just straight out bullshitting about anything. Yeah we do talk about how much we love eachother and all that gushy shit that you all porbably don't want to hear, but it is still more then what I would get with a female and I feel as if I need that in a relationship. *I say as I am tearing up* yeah, I am an affectionate person and somewhat emotional so I don't know if that is a factor why I am floored about my relationship and what not. I am not going to explain how different it is from being with a guy compared to being with a girl, but it is completely different and I like being with guys way much more. And no, I do not mean sexually because I am in a long distance relationship anyways.