Random Thoughts - Part Deux [NO POLITICS]

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by soulreapersteve

Speaking of dressing nice, I already get looks from milfs (or simply older ladies in general) just by driving around.

The one time I said "fuck it" and dressed up, holy shit. One of these days, I'll take one by the hand and stuff her in the passenger seat.


Some might say thats abduction, I say thats true love. /notcreepy

Oh, I had to look that up (milfs) ......."mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them".

Back-in-the-day, @soulreapersteve ...... we would have called you a "MF".....


humfrz

[Ashikabi]

Originally Posted by humfrz

Just curious, @Ashikabi ..... are you married .. ??


humfrz

No. Marriage is an antiquated tradition. There is no benefit that outweighs the risks. You've been married, what is it, 4 times now?

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Ashikabi

No. Marriage is an antiquated tradition. There is no benefit that outweighs the risks. You've been married, what is it, 4 times now?

Well, call me antiquated .....

Nope, only married twice ..... the first wife lasted about 25 years before she ran off ...... down the road ...... screaming.

The present wife (of 30 years) is still here ...... in a heavy state of denial .....


humfrz

[Ashikabi]

Originally Posted by Andrew025

Just because you don't agree with something doesn't make it disrespectful.

If a car is seriously riced out and I call it rice... Well... You kind of have to deal with it being called rice.

It's not that you disagree. I've said this many times before but Tcoat seems to have missed it so I'll go ahead sand repeat it here... it's not that you don't lie it, or disagree. It's how you do it. Disagreeing is not disrespectful and neither is saying you don't like something. But using derogatory statements such as "it looks like trash" is disrespectful. You could have said "I don't like big wings" or "I don't like body kits, I think it makes the car too busy". That is respectful conversation. It's not the disagreement I have a problem with. It's the presentation. See I believe we shouldn't be assholes to each other because then someone's feelings will be hurt(oh gosh now he sounds like my mom in third grade) and that's just not cool(oh there's me forcing my opinion on everyone again). I know Tcoat and Humfrz, as respected as they are, think I'm a loser. I'm quite sure more people do too. But I'm tired of the negativity. So I'll speak out against it whenever I can

[Ashikabi]

Originally Posted by humfrz

Well, call me antiquated .....

Nope, only married twice ..... the first wife lasted about 25 years before she ran off ...... down the road ...... screaming.

The present wife (of 30 years) is still here ...... in a heavy state of denial .....


humfrz

You are from an older time when people put more stock in a ring and a piece of paper. If you value it then get/stayed married. Everyone I know has been divorced. The way I see it, you get a tax break and can use "family" health insurance. But if you break up you probably need a lawyer($) might lose a bunch of your shit($$), and it will be long and messy instead of "sorry it didn't work out, cya".

"I love you and promise I won't sleep around or leave you for something stupid" is good enough for me. If she isn't happy I don't want her to stay anyways. I wouldn't want her to feel trapped by a marriage. Just like I decided to get fixed so I can't reproduce, I carefully weighed both sides of the equation and found very few pros but a lot of cons.

So why is it that you ask me simple personal questions then offer no explanation or obvious reason behind it? Compiling a list of reason why I'm a loser to drop later?

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Ashikabi

It's not that you disagree. I've said this many times before but Tcoat seems to have missed it so I'll go ahead sand repeat it here... it's not that you don't lie it, or disagree. It's how you do it. Disagreeing is not disrespectful and neither is saying you don't like something. But using derogatory statements such as "it looks like trash" is disrespectful. You could have said "I don't like big wings" or "I don't like body kits, I think it makes the car too busy". That is respectful conversation. It's not the disagreement I have a problem with. It's the presentation. See I believe we shouldn't be assholes to each other because then someone's feelings will be hurt(oh gosh now he sounds like my mom in third grade) and that's just not cool(oh there's me forcing my opinion on everyone again). I know Tcoat and Humfrz, as respected as they are, think I'm a loser. I'm quite sure more people do too. But I'm tired of the negativity. So I'll speak out against it whenever I can

Now, @Ashikabi , what have I said that makes you think, that I think, you're a loser .......


humfrz

[Andrew025]

I feel like I skipped school one day and missed out on something...

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Ashikabi

You are from an older time when people put more stock in a ring and a piece of paper. If you value it then get/stayed married. Everyone I know has been divorced. The way I see it, you get a tax break and can use "family" health insurance. But if you break up you probably need a lawyer($) might lose a bunch of your shit($$), and it will be long and messy instead of "sorry it didn't work out, cya".

"I love you and promise I won't sleep around or leave you for something stupid" is good enough for me. If she isn't happy I don't want her to stay anyways. I wouldn't want her to feel trapped by a marriage. Just like I decided to get fixed so I can't reproduce, I carefully weighed both sides of the equation and found very few pros but a lot of cons.

So why is it that you ask me simple personal questions then offer no explanation or obvious reason behind it? Compiling a list of reason why I'm a loser to drop later?

Oh, I'm just an old, retired guy, with too much time on his hands, trying to get a better idea of where you're coming from, so I can better understand your posts......


humfrz

[krayzie]

Originally Posted by humfrz

Now, @Ashikabi , what have I said that makes you think, that I think, you're a loser .......


humfrz

I think people these days especially on social media tend to be very sensitive to simple criticism.

What Ashikabi is describing I think is the collapse of the family unit, seems to be a modern social economic issue to me.

[Ashikabi]

Originally Posted by krayzie

I think people these days especially on social media tend to be very sensitive to simple criticism.

What Ashikabi is describing I think is the collapse of the family unit, seems to be a modern social economic issue.

I try not to say admiring online that I wouldn't say in person. No one calls your car trash in person but you see it all the time online

[krayzie]

Originally Posted by Ashikabi

I try not to say admiring online that I wouldn't say in person. No one calls your car trash in person but you see it all the time online

I think because being online with an avatar there is no consequential immediate physical threat such as a punch in the face.

[Teseo]

Originally Posted by krayzie

I think because being online with an avatar there is no consequential immediate physical threat such as a punch in the face.

Or a bullet in the head

[Andrew025]

Normal people shouldn't be getting into (gun) fights over someone calling their car trash

[Ashikabi]

Originally Posted by Andrew025

Normal people shouldn't be getting into (gun) fights over someone calling their car trash

I agree. I carry but shooting someone is too far. A broken nose is acceptable though