Random Thoughts - Part Deux [NO POLITICS]

[Tectoniic]

Originally Posted by Nevermore

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Not really sure how to say this without coming off as an asshole but think of how it will make her feel. I'm not saying she is out of your league or pitying you or anything like that but you may leave her feeling guilty in her relationship with her fiance about sleeping in your bed even if nothing happens.

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Cole

I got real liquored up last night and went on an online shopping spree...

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.......at least you had an excuse ....... mrs humfrz doesn't drink anymore .....


humfrz

[Tectoniic]

Originally Posted by Tcoat

Sleeping is sleeping and sex is sex. They do not need to be mutually inclusive. Nobody ever had to sleep in the same bed as some dude? Was that sex or just the needed sleeping arrangement?
Now...being in the same bed can be tempting and one innocent hand drape can be misconstrued but sleeping is just that.

While I agree 100% how you do make sure everyone involved or who knows about it is on the same page with what actually happened?

What the hell do I know, I'd rather spend my money on car parts

[Tcoat]

Originally Posted by Tectoniic

While I agree 100% how you do make sure everyone involved or who knows about it is on the same page with what actually happened?

What the hell do I know, I'd rather spend my money on car parts

AHHHHH that is the tricky part!

[Nevermore]

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[finch1750]

Originally Posted by Tcoat

Sleeping is sleeping and sex is sex. They do not need to be mutually inclusive. Nobody ever had to sleep in the same bed as some dude? Was that sex or just the needed sleeping arrangement?
Now...being in the same bed can be tempting and one innocent hand drape can be misconstrued but sleeping is just that.

yep. or rolling over in the morning and giving an legitaccidental poke.

I would take the couch. It's the safeest thing. I mean unless you guys want to bring this up with the fiance, because if you flip it would you be good if your fiance slept in the same bed as a good friend?

[Tcoat]

Originally Posted by finch1750

yep. or rolling over in the morning and giving an legitaccidental poke.

I would take the couch. It's the safeest thing. I mean unless you guys want to bring this up with the fiance, because if you flip it would you be good if your fiance slept in the same bed as a good friend?

And for god sake do NOT drink! Either one of you.
Would only take a few drinks and all the rules go out the window.


I was going to try to stay away from my personal spin on this but concur the couch is the safer bet.

[Nevermore]

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[p1l0t]

After sitting for awhile all like,



I finally pulled the trigger on some new headers for the Lincoln. Fuck it replace ALL THE EXHAUST at once.

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Nevermore

Okay! So, I'm going to ask this question in the most basic form to prevent confusion.............

DANG! ........... Nevermore ...... when she comes to visit ...... just get her a room at a motel ......

If she wants anything other than conversation, she will invite you in .......


humfrz

[Tcoat]

Originally Posted by Nevermore

You bring up a good point, and one I have actually struggled with. She's still quite friendly with me and if he knows any of it, and is cool with it, then he's a cooler guy than I am. I'd never want him near her if it was the other way around. I'm not just a close friend. I'm the runner up. It was him and I, neck and neck, until she made her choice.

OHHHH wait a second then that is getting into dangerous territory. Have you "slept" with her before?

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