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Originally Posted by Tcoat
But if creating your own happiness is making others miserable then it is selfish. What if they are making you miserable to create their own happiness does that make it ok with you? It is a give and take thing and can not be one sided at any point.
Love the irony that the OP didn't want to listen to his family and friends so came to a forum full of strangers to ask. Oh wait... came here since he knew most would say "it is your life do as you please and screw everybody else".
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That's a lot of assumptions. Ever been on a plane? They say put your mask on first cause you can't help anyone dead. Same concept.
So he should buy a mini van as a single 26 year old and that somehow is better for his family? My word the guy did not say he can't take the kids places or that he needs more space then it has.