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Originally Posted by TommyW
In order to make others happy you must first be happy yourself and you must create your own happiness.
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But if creating your own happiness is making others miserable then it is selfish. What if they are making you miserable to create their own happiness does that make it ok with you? It is a give and take thing and can not be one sided at any point.
Love the irony that the OP didn't want to listen to his family and friends so came to a forum full of strangers to ask. Oh wait... came here since he knew most would say "it is your life do as you please and screw everybody else".