Random Thoughts - Part Deux [NO POLITICS]

[Tcoat]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Now, here's a serious question to all the married guys/gals. Recently I got engaged & we were figuring out the wedding date, time & other stuff (which btw sucks)... now, here the main question, which day you guys count for anniversary? What I mean is, do you guys count the day that you guys sign the document (marriage license)? Or day that had the wedding? I'm assuming not all the city hall are open on the weekend. We were thinking of getting married on Sat, so document stuff have to be done before that (like Thursday or Friday)

The date of the service. That is the day that will stand out in her memory not the date that some documents were signed. Don't know Utah but here whoever officiates the wedding will have all the documents so it won't matter what day of the week it is.

Congrats on your first wedding

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by MuseChaser

What about the ones that weren't so prime, but still fairly prim?

I thought @Tcoat was talking ...... meat ...... prime - choice - select ......


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[new2subaru]

^^ Correct answer

EDIT: Above humfrz lol

[krayzie]

Originally Posted by Tcoat

Don't know Utah

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

I took today off to relax... but that's not going well. My parents called to tell me, I need to help em w yard work. How the fck they knew I had today off?!?!?!

Working on the yard for over 5hrs in the sun... FML

ahhhhh........poor ichitaka05 ....... let me tell you about helping out at my parents farm ....... 16 hour days and ...... oh, I'll let this picture tell the story .....




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[ichitaka05]

Originally Posted by krayzie

Interesting. At least here it's usually a Saturday thing so same day event (I'm not married but have attended enough weddings already). The city hall opens on Saturdays.

Isn't your wedding the moment you guys sign the legal doc and becomes official?

Just checked... they're closed Sat & Sun. At least where I live, they're closed on the weekend. FML

Originally Posted by Tcoat

The date of the service. That is the day that will stand out in her memory not the date that some documents were signed. Don't know Utah but here whoever officiates the wedding will have all the documents so it won't matter what day of the week it is.

Congrats on your first wedding

Here's the thing, we won't have typical Murican wedding. We gonna have tea ceremony, so doesn't need someone to officiate. Just my fam & her fam... drinking tea lol

Thanks... still got over an yr, so I'm pretty sure I'll ask more weird questions.

[ichitaka05]

Originally Posted by humfrz

ahhhhh........poor ichitaka05 ....... let me tell you about helping out at my parents farm ....... 16 hour days and ...... oh, I'll let this picture tell the story .....



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You sure it wasn't like this? Lmao

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by Tcoat

Good because that was all you were getting.

Good ........ certain things just should be kept off the internet ......




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[humfrz]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

You sure it wasn't like this? Lmao

Well, that's close to when I first remember putting up hay. My job was to sit up on the lead horse and slap that sucker when my grandfather said to move forward. The horse knew where to go ..... it just followed the windrow of hay.

Of course the horse would foam up in the heat of the day and make my balls itch. That wasn't nearly as bad as those damn horseflies that couldn't tell the difference between me and the horse ....... ...... maybe they didn't care ......

When we got to the end of the row, we could stop and take a big drink of water out of the jug that was covered by hay at the edge of the field .........

Oh, OK ....... I'll just drift away .......


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[humfrz]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Now, here's a serious question to all the married guys/gals. Recently I got engaged & we were figuring out the wedding date, time & other stuff (which btw sucks)... now, here the main question, which day you guys count for anniversary? What I mean is, do you guys count the day that you guys sign the document (marriage license)? Or day that had the wedding? I'm assuming not all the city hall are open on the weekend. We were thinking of getting married on Sat, so document stuff have to be done before that (like Thursday or Friday)

In Washington state:

"A marriage license purchased from any county in Washington State can be used to get married anywhere in Washington State. The permanent record of the marriage certificate will be recorded with the county from which the marriage license was purchased."

The "anniversary date" is usually the annual anniversary of the date of the wedding.

Do you know how to remember it ......?? Just forget it once ......


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[MuseChaser]

Your "wedding anniversary" is a celebration of the date of your wedding; the date you were wed; the date upon which you said "I do." I guess folks could celebrate the "wedding application day" or "Wedding Document Completion Day," but I've never heard of anyone doing so.

We're going to celebrate our 35th in another week and a half. It's been wonderful, and I highly recommend it.

[krayzie]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

We gonna have tea ceremony, so doesn't need someone to officiate. Just my fam & her fam... drinking tea lol

Some Asian families make a very big deal on the tea drinking sequence even down to what pillow to use lmfao!

[cjd]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Here's the thing, we won't have typical Murican wedding. We gonna have tea ceremony, so doesn't need someone to officiate. Just my fam & her fam... drinking tea lol

Thanks... still got over an yr, so I'm pretty sure I'll ask more weird questions.

It's not binding legally as a marriage unless officiated by a licensed individual, who takes care of the paperwork and stuff. I had to bring it all to city hall, but I was already married, the visit was just to file the paperwork. I'm sure it varies a bit by state, and any officiating may just be "sign here" but...

If you wish to have the tea ceremony be the day of marriage, I'm sure you can find someone that will work with you to make it happen, before or after, but on that day.

Maybe someone in the family can get their license by then?

I know people that get legally married a long time after they think themselves married, and celebrate both... But the legal date is never the main one.

[humfrz]

Originally Posted by MuseChaser

Your "wedding anniversary" is a celebration of the date of your wedding; the date you were wed; the date upon which you said "I do." I guess folks could celebrate the "wedding application day" or "Wedding Document Completion Day," but I've never heard of anyone doing so.

We're going to celebrate our 35th in another week and a half. It's been wonderful, and I highly recommend it.

CONGRATULATIONS .............


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