Going through the big and don't mean Dallas

[Marrk]

Originally Posted by ABQautoxer

While many of us have stories about the evil doing of a woman, just remember they can be matched with stories from women being mistreated by men. Part of the sign you are ready to move on is when you get over the bitterness and realize both sexes can be evil and mean and both can be good and sweet. Women have their way of preparing for a split and men have theirs. The biggest eye opener for me was watching my teenager daughter from age 12-18 and how she thinks of and handles her dating life versus how I did and see other boys her age. Two completely different mindsets, I mean I knew it would be but I am still surprised often how different we really are.

Yeah, women think differently. For example, a man thinks it's an accomplishment to become the president of Microsoft. A woman thinks it's an accomplishment to ovulate. A man thinks that abstract ideas and ideals, like, for example, dying for your country, is a viable notion. A woman thinks such self-sacrifice is idiotic.

But I am willing to concede that such talk is not helping the OP, so I'll drop it.

[blur]

Originally Posted by Marrk

Yeah, women think differently. For example, a man thinks it's an accomplishment to become the president of Microsoft. A woman thinks it's an accomplishment to ovulate. A man thinks that abstract ideas and ideals, like, for example, dying for your country, is a viable notion. A woman thinks such self-sacrifice is idiotic.

But I am willing to concede that such talk is not helping the OP, so I'll drop it.

I would NEVER sacrifice my life for someone else's political agenda... I must be a woman

Oh wait, politics, can't talk about that here :X

If you ask me, a woman's only concern in life is whether or not she is in a relationship she is happy with. If she is not happy, she will take steps to amend that, usually at other people's expenses...

[Marrk]

^^Who said anything about "someone else's political agenda"?

[S2kphile]

Once you remove the veil on the opposite sex and truly understand how they really are, a man can have better & more full-filling relationships with women; as result, a man won't be as surprised by the idiotic shit they do even when it doesn't make logical sense.

Btw, @Marrk are you in the anger or acceptance phase after finding out how women really are?

[blur]

Originally Posted by Marrk

^^Who said anything about "someone else's political agenda"?

Assuming that by "dying for your country" you mean going to war... and during war you're following a superior's orders usually dictated by... politics.

Unless you are implying that there are other ways to die for your country?

[Marrk]

^^Neither anger nor acceptance. Much to my own disappointment, I have had to revise my opinion of women, after they have time and against failed to live up to any kind of adult standard. They are intellectually inert and emotionally immature. Few, if any, of them have made the least adult attempt to resolve their father issues. And, by the way, they all have father issues.

If you don't like what you are hearing from me, then ask any woman what it is that she wants, and if she answers you candidly, instead of feeding you the answer she thinks you want to hear, write her answer on a slip of paper. Then, PM me and, without any knowledge of what is on that paper, I will tell you what she said.

[S2kphile]

Originally Posted by Marrk

^^Neither anger nor acceptance. Much to my own disappointment, I have had to revise my opinion of women, after they have time and against failed to live up to any kind of adult standard. They are intellectually inert and emotionally immature. Few, if any, of them have made the least adult attempt to resolve their father issues. And, by the way, they all have father issues.

If you don't like what you are hearing from me, then ask any woman what it is that she wants, and if she answers you candidly, instead of feeding you the answer she thinks you want to hear, write her answer on a slip of paper. Then, PM me and, without any knowledge of what is on that paper, I will tell you what she said.

You're in between the "anger & go your own way" phase from what it seems. You're expecting a grown woman or any woman to act & think like an adult/male but in reality it simply isn't the case. Women are subservient to their emotions, some more then others. They are biological & psychological different from men. But a man can figure it out with experience & some reading. Took me a while to accept a woman being a woman but when that time came, my relationships became more full-filling & I love women for being women, not men.

[Marrk]

^^I know plenty of women who behave like mature adults and, occasionally, think of something other than their appetites. But I would say that the last three or four generations of American women are well and truly f.-ed. Useless. Worthless, except if you want childishness in your life.

I don't care enough about the subject to be "angry." It doesn't concern me. I thought we were having an intellectual discussion, not an exploration of my own personal Oprah issues.

[jedibow]

Originally Posted by blur

I would NEVER sacrifice my life for someone else's political agenda... I must be a woman

Oh wait, politics, can't talk about that here :X

If you ask me, a woman's only concern in life is whether or not she is in a relationship she is happy with. If she is not happy, she will take steps to amend that, usually at other people's expenses...

Ouch Blur....

Removes knife from back

[blur]

Originally Posted by jedibow

Ouch Blur....

Removes knife from back

That's not how I meant it. Women are often erratic and don't know what they want. So often a break up is out of the blue, simply because the woman's ideology of what she wants has changed. They also have a tendency of getting bored with good relationships. In no way am I saying that you were responsible for her unhappiness (AFAIK).

[jedibow]

Originally Posted by blur

That's not how I meant it. Women are often erratic and don't know what they want. So often a break up is out of the blue, simply because the woman's ideology of what she wants has changed. They also have a tendency of getting bored with good relationships. In no way am I saying that you were responsible for her unhappiness (AFAIK).

I was just playing with you, and you are correct, truth be told I was responsible for some of her unghappiness, or else she wouldn't have gone elsewhere. That was actually a great statement.

The real question is why do women expect us to be perfect ALL the time, they really do have unrealistic expectations.

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[Ben_G]

Originally Posted by jedibow

Good point, I have already visited three, I was going to let her file so that I didn't need to drag her name through the dirt, because if I filed it would be for infidelity, she would probably file for irreconcileable differences. But after today, I'm not convinced she will file..... Crap the drama continues....

I can't contribute anything better than what everyone here has already said, but I just wanted to chime in here.... don't let her play games with you. If she hasn't filed by now, but has been telling you she would, she won't. She's probably trying to drag things out until "sancho" or whatever his name is is back on his feet or she finds someone else.

File your divorce and keep things moving. Citing infidelity isn't dragging her name through the dirt. It's just fact and she should be woman enough to take responsibility for her actions.

[jedibow]

So why if you are cheated on in a no fault state do you have to pay to get ride of the cheating spouse??? Can somebody explain this to me? I hate NM

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[ABQautoxer]

What are they asking you to pay? I didn't have to pay anything to my X under similar circumstances.