Random thoughts thread

[IntotheOcean]

Originally Posted by Allch Chcar

Not trying to stomp your dreams or anything but there isn't 't a perfect man on this . Everyone has flaws, it takes time to find all those flaws that people hide. It's natural, it's what we're taught to do.

Not perfect, just someone who shares common interests and who can laugh at my cornyjokes/make a few himself.
Feels like as we mature we become way too serious and boring - I'd be miserable if I was stuck with someone who didn't have a goofy side.
As for anger problems-too many people fight oveer stupid shit. I had to deal with it growing up and would never want the same for my kids.
Yeah it can be healthy but my ex made everything into a argument - I swear it was like I was dating a girl. -total drama 24/7-
People need to learn to be more passive.

[M-17]

Originally Posted by IntotheOcean

Guess I can't really complain about being single since I'm the one always turning guys away.
They're cool, just not my type.
Slowly finding out that the guy who listens to the same alt. Rock as me, watches horror movies, likes art, cars and has a great sense of humor with 0 anger problems does not exist *Le sigh*

Hmmm.... probably just not in your neck of the woods.


Sometimes I have to remind myself I can't be so damn picky.
Cause its not all about accepting someone for who they are perr say, but finding the right chemistry between one another. Then everything else (flaws) seems fades away.

[IntotheOcean]

And @Porsche thanks again!
I will have to agree with you on looking at things closely. (one of the reasons I'm good at defense playing chess) I like to always think a few steps a head-but it gets bad, and I suck at offense

anyway I'm currently trying to help my mom with her finances/saving - she has a problem in that department.
I really can't justify the car-its my well planned irresponsible decision lol. Getting an auto loan under my belt/helping my credit score(my goal is to be in the 700s by may/june-I wrote to the bureau's to have something that went to collections taken off so who knows that might help- well see what happens, I'm pretty confident I'll have enough saved for college once I'm ready-this won't get me into debt, I just like to think of it as I spent the last few month in hibernation and I'm ready to start having some real driving fun! Woo
I have many steps to get there, so why not have a good motivation. Every time I look at it I'll remember what I had to do to get it. Too much hard work and not enough $$. Never again. I will never settle for this kind of future :-P
Thanks again for your advice!

[Zaku]

To book train tickets to Atlantic city for meet or not....

[M-17]

Originally Posted by Zaku

To book train tickets to Atlantic city for meet or not....

Do it man. Its going to be worth it.

[Zaku]

I have to actually be up in Boston that week, or a couple days before. Maybe if I come down with you New England guys, and then catch another ride down back with Mid A crew ( LOL I'm such a bum//will pay for gas though))

[OrbitalEllipses]

Originally Posted by Zaku

I have to actually be up in Boston that week, or a couple days before. Maybe if I come down with you New England guys, and then catch another ride down back with Mid A crew ( LOL I'm such a bum//will pay for gas though))

That shouldn't be a problem.

[Zaku]

I will work out everything with my work place first and hope I can make it, I can also just head down to AC first and just wait a day. I don't really mind

[M-17]

All I know is that if I do go through with it, I better still have time to go to the NYIAS since that will be the last weekend for it.

[Zaku]

Originally Posted by M-17

All I know is that if I do go through with it, I better still have time to go to the NYIAS since that will be the last weekend for it.

Anything there that really stands out this year ?

[OrbitalEllipses]

Originally Posted by Zaku

Anything there that really stands out this year ?

Subaru hybrid unveiling.

[Allch Chcar]

Originally Posted by OrbitalEllipses

Where did you get that smiley...pretty sure it's property of NASIOC.

Yup, I got it from NAWSEEOCK.

[Asterisked Accolade]

I've been wondering who the new Chevy SS' demographic is. It's a huge land-boat sedan with very bland [imo] styling. It reminds me of a very boring Cadillac CTS-V. I'm wondering if it is supposed to be aimed at the Ford Taurus SHO(?) I dunno, i guess i'm just unsure what it is supposed to be doing. Additionally, i was just so underwhelmed by the styling that it kind of irked me.

"SS" was always something be looked at with a sense of grandeur but this car just doesn't fit that title in my mind. This is all totally subjective, mind you, but i'm still genuinely curious as to what it is aiming to do.

[mangostick]

Originally Posted by IntotheOcean

As for anger problems-too many people fight oveer stupid shit. I had to deal with it growing up and would never want the same for my kids.
Yeah it can be healthy but my ex made everything into a argument - I swear it was like I was dating a girl. -total drama 24/7-
People need to learn to be more passive.

Those are maturity issues, not anger issues. There's a big difference. If a topic cannot be discussed without a "fight" then someone lacks the ability to relax and let things go and see another point of view other than their own.

Dont mistake maturity for "boring" either.. you stated you dont want "boring" .. well.. passivity is boring. Dont you want a volley? inspiring back and forth of Ideas and feedback?

for example; many people find me to be "angry" .. I'm anything but ..however most people are too limp wristed and dull to see the difference between passion and anger.

makes me wonder when people lost vigor and passion and replaced it with.. well.. nothing. dull people make for dull world.