Random thoughts thread

[OrbitalEllipses]

http://www.theonion.com/articles/bre...highway,34462/

[ichitaka05]

Why is it always the event I can't go, Tada-san always go to that event? Am I been cursed?

[Luis_GT]

I don't think I'm gonna be able to comply with No-shave November...

[KslayFRZ]

@sklimo @Anthony you remember taking this?




FB-Mid Atlantic 86...join the family

[M-17]

[KslayFRZ]

Lmfao




FB-Mid Atlantic 86...join the family

[Steve201brz]

Got pulled over "for tints" although they were clearly trying to get lucky and find drugs.
I wouldn't be so absolutely pissed off if for once they would pull over people who clearly don't know how to drive.

[M-17]

Originally Posted by ichitaka05

Hate checking my FB right now... Most if my friends in CA went to SEMA & taking so much pics. WHY WORK! Why didn't you have to make me do this ridiculously huge project!

I can see how that would bother the hell out of you.
I'm just sitting here going through the all the photos and videos and wish I could have gone just for the cars alone.

And I don't recall, but did you get the chance to go to SEMA last year? Amway, there's always next year.

Originally Posted by IntotheOcean

http://sethadamsmith.com/2013/11/02/...-isnt-for-you/

I honestly think I am reading this incorrectly...
Are they really saying marriage is only about making the other person happy?.....

This article keeps the coming up on my Facebook feed - everyone seems to love it.
And here I am thinking- if you give everything you got to someone in hopes they will be mature enough to do the same you will be unhappy.

As selfish as it may sound sometimes you have to focus on YOU and what you need or want from the marriage...
Marriage is about BOTH people being happy, not just giving everything to the other in hopes they will reciprocate...
Maybe I am missing the point of this silly overrated article?? who knows.

Well if you married correctly, you and your spouse will always be happy. The person you married WILL always be willingly to share/give all of what they have to you because you're the person they fell in love with.
There is no second guessing, no hesitation, no waiting for the other person to reciprocate, cause they will... no matter what.

With that being said, the reason that article is getting attention is because its a good wake up call for those that have forgotten.

I understand when you mentioned its okay to be selfish. That's fine and all, but at some point by being selfish for so long or if you're just in it for a few perks then you'll end up loosing the person you married.
This year alone, I know 3 family members all in their mid 30's that are going through a divorce. Each with a different story, but all end with the same reason. One or the other was selfish.

A little word of advise, don't marry someone out of peer pressure from family, friends, or from society. Its not a game, its not a Disney movie, its not another romance novel. Nothing is perfect, so it does take time to find someone that wants to give it there all for another person.

I hope that helps.

Originally Posted by Anthony

Where is @sklimo when you need him?

Originally Posted by KslayFRZ

He's [sklimo] killing civics last I seen lol

Originally Posted by OrbitalEllipses

http://www.theonion.com/articles/bre...highway,34462/

Lmao

[ichitaka05]

Originally Posted by M-17

I can how much that would bother the hell out of you. I'm just siitting here going through the all the photos and videos and wish I could have gone for the cars alone.

And I don't recall, but did you get the chance to go to SEMA last year? Amway, there's always next then.

Yeah I did go last yr. Scion did Scion to SEMA event & I was invited to go (even though I didn't have FRS). It was fully sponsored by Toyota/Scion. Free pass to SEMA was worth it!

I'm planning to go next yr, so we should plan something! C'mon, I know you like Vegas! lol

[sklimo]

So my company just made us all sit through a sexual harrasment training. I've been here 5 years almost, you would think they would know by now I already know how to sexually harass people..........

[7thgear]

back in university i was friends with a girle name Seema, she was from Trinidad. She drove a bimmer... her boyfriend was from Argentina..and his name was Semo.

[Kelbyat07]

Originally Posted by 7thgear

back in university i was friends with a girle name Seema, she was from Trinidad. She drove a bimmer... her boyfriend was from Argentina..and his name was Semo.

Tell me more

[Steve201brz]

Originally Posted by sklimo

So my company just made us all sit through a sexual harrasment training. I've been here 5 years almost, you would think they would know by now I already know how to sexually harass people..........

[7thgear]

Originally Posted by Kelbyat07

Tell me more

she wasn't friends with me after i told her one day that she could stand to lose a lil weight (she could.. seriously)

at the time i didn't know that she was on these anti-depressants and what not, felt pretty bad after.

ohh well, that was a decade a go...