My mom hates import culture?

[LexusFman]

Ever since I was a little kid, I think my mom has always hated import culture. When I was 8, I remembered I bought my first car magazine and she ripped out all of the pages with models in them. Almost half the magazine was gone

Well, in September, I took my parents and my brother to a DMCC event (Canada's drifting sanctioning body) and it was awesome. It was the first event I have ever been to with cool cars, drifting and such. I had such a great time. My mom, however didn't have a good time. We went to buy T-shirts, and there were the models there. Apparently there was a model there who didn't wear underwear and when the wind blew you could see her vagina and everything. (I didn't see shit. Some family they are!). Buying the T-shirt qualified us for a ride along, which we didn't win but she said she wouldn't let me take it because she thought the drivers would be on drugs and stuff. Well now she hates anything related to import cars and thinks all people who like cars are pimps, drug dealers, or prostitutes. It was a good first experience, but I don't want it to be my last. Can someone help me convince my mom the import car community isn't a bunch of drug dealing scumbags?

[neutron256]

Live with it, bide your time. I assume your still living with your parents. Once your on your own it won't matter what your parents think, or at least not as much. As you get older you'll probably even find yourself agreeing with them.

[S2kphile]

Originally Posted by LexusFman

Apparently there was a model there who didn't wear underwear and when the wind blew you could see her vagina and everything.

TO OP: Moms hate on things they don't see that benefits their kids in a conventional sense. My mom was the same way but not that extreme because I didn't give a care & did what see wanted me to which was go to school & get good grades.

[SeattleBoy21]

Buying a car doesn't have to mean becoming obsessed with "import culture". Buy a car, do what you do, and create your own "culture" around you. Trust me, you can waste all your time living in some imaginary world and going to these shows, buying magazines (which is probably what your parents are being naggy parents about), or you can get whatever car you like, and go live a real life out there. That's what really cool people do, as opposed to people trying to be cool. That's part of growing up. And if you have to save up for your dream car, then set a goal, get a job and start saving. Create your own realities, you don't have to emulate some culture that you see only peripherally, that has a perception of "being cool". Define yourself genuinely and people including your parents will begin to respect you.

[KaliKev]

Seriously?

[blu_]

I've never been a big fan of the "import scene" either. Probably most car scenes really. I think the one club event where I really enjoyed the people was an Alpha club. In general these events, sanctioned or unsanctioned always seemed very image based IMO.

[Longhorn248]

Originally Posted by KaliKev

Seriously?

And here I was thinking the pricing threads were asinine.

[DEnd]

Shes doing you a favor drifting is figure skating for guys who are too ashamed to admit they like figure skating.

Seriously you should watch figure skating... The chicks look good, wear skimpy outfits, and actually have talent.

[GrimmSpeed]

My mom broke my Live: Throwing Copper CD 20 years ago because she thought it would corrupt me. Wonder what she would have done if I brought her to a car event and showed her some va ja jays.

IBTL

Justin

[LexusFman]

Originally Posted by SeattleBoy21

Buying a car doesn't have to mean becoming obsessed with "import culture". Buy a car, do what you do, and create your own "culture" around you. Trust me, you can waste all your time living in some imaginary world and going to these shows, buying magazines (which is probably what your parents are being naggy parents about), or you can get whatever car you like, and go live a real life out there. That's what really cool people do, as opposed to people trying to be cool. That's part of growing up. And if you have to save up for your dream car, then set a goal, get a job and start saving. Create your own realities, you don't have to emulate some culture that you see only peripherally, that has a perception of "being cool". Define yourself genuinely and people including your parents will begin to respect you.

I'm not obsessed with import culture, the thing is I enjoy reading the magazines although they do get repetative after awhile. It's something to do when boared. The problem is, I find the events fun. It might be because i'm not around preformance cars EVER but I thought it was awesome to be around so many cool cars. Even in the parking lots there were skylines and supras and rediculous S13s. It was actually the second time I have ever seen a Supra in real life EVER. The first time was on the highway when I was 5. I remember it clearly. Sad, I know.

Originally Posted by DEnd

Shes doing you a favor drifting is figure skating for guys who are too ashamed to admit they like figure skating.

Seriously you should watch figure skating... The chicks look good, wear skimpy outfits, and actually have talent.

What's wrong with drifting? It was fun to watch and all of the people there except my mom liekd the drifting. Why does an automotive sport have to be a contest of speed for it too be appreciated? It is basically figure skating with cars, but what's wrong with that?

[DEnd]

Originally Posted by GrimmSpeed

Wonder what she would have done if I brought her to a car event and showed her some va ja jays.

I don't know about your mom... But mine would probably yell out: "hallelujah it's a miracle!"

But that might only be because she's totally blind.

[bestwheelbase]

Originally Posted by DEnd

I don't know about your mom... But mine would probably yell out: "hallelujah it's a miracle!"

But that might only be because she's totally blind.

Might be because her sense of smell is better than yours and she can catch the vanilla perfume a mile away.

All joking aside... OP sounds like a young person dealing with the growing pains of having a protective parent. We've all known someone in that position. You just gotta be patient and understand she means well, but she might not always be right.

[DEnd]

Originally Posted by LexusFman

What's wrong with drifting? It was fun to watch and all of the people there except my mom liekd the drifting. Why does an automotive sport have to be a contest of speed for it too be appreciated? It is basically figure skating with cars, but what's wrong with that?

There is nothing wrong with drifting, it takes amazing skill to be successful at it.

But if you want your Mom's approval to look at scantily clad hot chicks then figure skating is your only choice.

[OrbitalEllipses]

Originally Posted by Longhorn248

And here I was thinking the pricing threads were asinine.