I thought lawyers should at least type perfect grammar. It is an indication that they are competent especially during the argument. I'm not trying to be a grammar police. However, those kind of things always come out instantly. It is like in your blood. My English is bad, and I don't need it much to make my living. I'm happy as long as I could deliver my messages.
Please stop this kind of thread. We are not here to be your mom.
Fyi, you can keep your personal issues if you want to create a thread like this. Nobody cares how many times you have divorced. This is a car forum, not a dating forum or something like psychological consultation agencies.
Something should sound like this:
Should I eat or not? I will go with the majority of votes. When the poll decides that you should eat, then you should eat regardless you are not feeling hungry.
Or get something like this. I hope it helps you.
"Magic Conch! Should I keep the car?"