That sucks man.... looks like they should total it. My FRS had 12k in damage to the rear end/rear driver side quarter panel. If they had to replace the quarter panel the car would have been totaled.... your car is also worth less now... I got 5 grand in diminished value on my car. Make sure to make a claim on it! (My car isn't a reconstructed title) Don't believe the insurance company or body shop who says "your car isn't worth less BECAUSE IT IS NOW."
Your car will look like this....
but mine was rear end so good luck....
(also keep in mind all that side damage is from the ripple of the impact. These cars are made to crunch around use.... hope there isn't much damage under that!)