i realized a lot of it was wishful thinking, but why not set the bar a bit higher?

a lot of the modifications you listed are expensive, so just as an example, here are Moton coilovers for BMWs listed on Turner Motorsports:
http://www.turnermotorsport.com/BMW-...e-dampers.aspx
AST makes good coilovers as well. KW are reportedly very good, although not in quite the same league as AST and Moton, but much cheaper, closer to Tein prices. Bilstein and Koni should also have high quality coilovers. the difference between a looks/style coilover and a performance coilover is incredible, both in handling and ride quality.
my biggest gripe with your list is that it's so inconsistent. some things listed are worthwhile, and other things on the list are second-rate or nearly pointless.
i do applaud you in putting performance driving school first.

i'm curious though, why rally school?
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