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Originally Posted by spike021

Earlier I told a female friend of mine it'd be nice to meet up for food or something, and since usually we hang out with friends, I decided to set expectations and say I've been interested in her for a while, so that's the kind of 1:1 hangout I wanted to have.

She goes "sorry spike but you're not my type and I'm glad you mentioned it this way because if you'd done this while we're in the group you'd only have embarrassed yourself."

I wish I could say I was making this shit up. I thought girls are supposed to wise up a bit after they turn 30?

She's not fully my "type" either but we get along well as friends, she's able to have a professional job, and, at least before this, I thought she was smart (which to me is attractive ). Good lord lol.

I'm not like super pissed off about it and I won't dwell on it, but the whole "you'd have embarrassed yourself" is making me seriously cringe.

I suggest you not dwell on that experience.

When and if the "right" woman comes along, you will know it.