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Old 07-14-2023, 08:25 PM   #8105
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Originally Posted by spike021 View Post
Earlier I told a female friend of mine it'd be nice to meet up for food or something, and since usually we hang out with friends, I decided to set expectations and say I've been interested in her for a while, so that's the kind of 1:1 hangout I wanted to have.

She goes "sorry spike but you're not my type and I'm glad you mentioned it this way because if you'd done this while we're in the group you'd only have embarrassed yourself."

I wish I could say I was making this shit up. I thought girls are supposed to wise up a bit after they turn 30?

She's not fully my "type" either but we get along well as friends, she's able to have a professional job, and, at least before this, I thought she was smart (which to me is attractive ). Good lord lol.

I'm not like super pissed off about it and I won't dwell on it, but the whole "you'd have embarrassed yourself" is making me seriously cringe.
you know, sometimes i think it would be nice to get back into dating. to have someone else around to hang out and do stuff with.

then i remember how much work it is, and how dog's are so much easier. i can lock my dog in a crate for a whole day and no one says anything...
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