I don't even want to drive with my girlfriend anymore for reasons you stated @
Tcoat
Mainly me getting yelled at if I mention anything.
She isn't that had, but she's a notorious late braker and signals as/after braking. She's also hard on her clutch between shifts. Giving lots of throttle and riding it more than nessesarly.
We recently bought a 2020 Impreza 5spd to replace her dying focus and I think it'll force her to smooth out her shifting due to the rev hang.
She did get nauseous once the first drive after I installed springs. It hasn't been an issue since.