They should look like this one
https://www.easternbeaver.com/Main/E...090/ts090.html
Here's an image from the light on my car. Notice that the keying is on the left (rather than on the right for the linked product). However, you can just grind the keying off of the one you buy, or buy a new male and female pair for the car.
---
I don't think all is lost. If you bought male and female of the new connectors, and you have new terminals, just replace both sides on the car.