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Originally Posted by StraightOuttaCanadaEh
omg same here, it bothers me so much. Although I do realize how ironic it is that me being bothered by it is more demeaning to him than if I wasn't.
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I think it depends on WHY you're bothered by it lol. If you're bothered because you think the job itself is demeaning and dont like seeing someone being demeaned so you help out, then yeah that could be seen as even more demeaning. But if you're just uncomfortable because watching someone else clean up your mess makes you feel like a selfish asshole who cant even take 30 seconds to help out, then I don't think that's more demeaning to him lol.
I always try to make stuff easier for my servers at restaurants for the same reason. Yes, its their job to clear the table, but if I don't stack up the menus nicely so they can easily just take the stack after they take our order, or if I don't stack the plates and put all trash/silverware on top when we're done, I feel like I'm just being a lazy jerk who wants everything done for him.