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Old 03-26-2019, 09:57 AM   #3
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@DarkPira7e, I work in a similar environment (IT Director in a hospital system including ambulatory clinics), and have worked in other environments with similar personnel (I've been in the clinical lab business, as well as the airline business).

I'm also a bit old-school, probably because I'm older.

Calling someone that has earned the degree Doctor as "Doctor" so and so, is just polite, it isn't treating them as gods. I also refer to persons more senior than me (either in age (although I've about outrun that one, or rank) by Mr. or Ms. unless they tell me otherwise. I would do the same with Military rank or other persons with official titles (Doctor is an official title, just like Major or President).

I also don't just call them Doctor, but I use their name. So it's Doctor Kildare, not Doc or Doctor, just like I wouldn't call you "Hey Bud" instead of your name if I knew you.

No, it's probably not career suicide, but you will eventually run into someone that feels their hard work, money and time they put into earning the title (and they did earn it) earns them the right to insist you call them by it.

Like it or not, to some people if you "ignore social hierarchy" you are being disrespectful.

That is entirely different conversation than "being treated like a dog". I've corrected more than "of rank" in my career or refused to talk to them until they stopped ranting at me.
Thank you for the perspective, I appreciate the time you've taken with your response. I do agree that it is a nice gesture above all else, I suppose just that I've noticed the people who lay the lowest are walked on by doctors much more frequently. This may be culture at my hospital more than anything else- a lot of the doctors here do seem to treat us as dogs and are disrespectful, rude, and belittling. I find that the more I work with them as an individual rather than their title, the less I get talked down to. I understand completely where you're coming from - it really may be that I'm young still and don't call people "Mr. Deschamps" because I find it awkward.
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