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Talk to a lawyer/ticket fixer firm. The first consolation is usually free so worth a shot.
Carless driving is the ticket they issue when they can't make anything else stick.
Do not make a claim for cosmetic damage. Live with it.
Stop trying to show off. Nothing you could do in a Japanese car will impress the Challenger/Mustang/Camaro crowd.
Leave traction control on while on the streets.
Stop demeaning yourself. You screwed up you admitted it. End of story.
If you truly can not afford the car go talk to the dealer you leased from. They may have options. If you have to walk away from it then your credit score will take a hit for 7 years but you will recover.