LOL, this is you guys being nice?
OP - Do what RCE Andrew said. It sounds to me like you should take the hit and sell your rims. They look nice and somebody will want them. That is unless you want to go for the 'stanced' look - you'll need a LOT of camber, room (coilovers), drop, and special control arms etc. to tuck with that offset/width. And at that point you're going for looks rather than performance.
Or you could go rocket bunny
Also check this site:
https://tiresize.com/wheel-offset-calculator/