View Single Post
Old 10-15-2016, 10:12 PM   #30
Kaotic Lazagna
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2014
Drives: GR Corolla
Location: Lathrop, CA
Posts: 4,943
Thanks: 3,096
Thanked 3,028 Times in 1,865 Posts
Mentioned: 40 Post(s)
Tagged: 2 Thread(s)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ultramaroon View Post
I disagree. There's always risk but it can be mitigated by the approach. Friendly, non-confrontational honesty is a skill that takes practice. If you can first shed any expectation for the outcome and focus on candor, it helps the other party to open up.

If they're nice already and you send the message that you aren't judging them, they might surprise you.


...might.
For what ever reason, my mom doesn't think so. She fits the stereotypical passive Asian (-_-)
Kaotic Lazagna is offline   Reply With Quote