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Originally Posted by Ashikabi
You are from an older time when people put more stock in a ring and a piece of paper. If you value it then get/stayed married. Everyone I know has been divorced. The way I see it, you get a tax break and can use "family" health insurance. But if you break up you probably need a lawyer($) might lose a bunch of your shit($$), and it will be long and messy instead of "sorry it didn't work out, cya".
"I love you and promise I won't sleep around or leave you for something stupid" is good enough for me. If she isn't happy I don't want her to stay anyways. I wouldn't want her to feel trapped by a marriage. Just like I decided to get fixed so I can't reproduce, I carefully weighed both sides of the equation and found very few pros but a lot of cons.
So why is it that you ask me simple personal questions then offer no explanation or obvious reason behind it? Compiling a list of reason why I'm a loser to drop later?
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Oh, I'm just an old, retired guy, with too much time on his hands, trying to get a better idea of where you're coming from, so I can better understand your posts......
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