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Originally Posted by humfrz
Well, call me antiquated ..... 
Nope, only married twice ..... the first wife lasted about 25 years before she ran off ...... down the road ...... screaming.
The present wife (of 30 years) is still here ...... in a heavy state of denial ..... 
humfrz |
You are from an older time when people put more stock in a ring and a piece of paper. If you value it then get/stayed married. Everyone I know has been divorced. The way I see it, you get a tax break and can use "family" health insurance. But if you break up you probably need a lawyer($) might lose a bunch of your shit($$), and it will be long and messy instead of "sorry it didn't work out, cya".
"I love you and promise I won't sleep around or leave you for something stupid" is good enough for me. If she isn't happy I don't want her to stay anyways. I wouldn't want her to feel trapped by a marriage. Just like I decided to get fixed so I can't reproduce, I carefully weighed both sides of the equation and found very few pros but a lot of cons.
So why is it that you ask me simple personal questions then offer no explanation or obvious reason behind it? Compiling a list of reason why I'm a loser to drop later?