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Originally Posted by Quentin
That's the thing. She is a girlfriend. When you get married -- and especially if you have kids -- you have to consider the needs of the whole before deciding to spend money on frivolous playthings. I make about 3x what my wife makes. She does a majority of the child rearing, keeps the house clean, makes most of the meals, runs all the errands, stays on top of all the bills, etc. Yes, I earn the vast majority of what we make, but she carries a lot of the weight even if she isn't physically receiving a paycheck for it.
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We own a house together. We'll get married when we feel like the paper is a necessity
That's why we don't have kids, now, or anytime in the future (do our 3 dogs count?). We don't want to give up our frivolous playthings for ourselves; we want to do both, or else we won't bring a child into this world on our free will and choice (if it happens on accident, then that changes things, but not)