I test drove the AT. Even with the paddle set up I found the transmission taking over more than I would like. I understand everyone's beef with a MT in traffic, but I just do what the truckers do. First gear and coast along. It becomes a game of keeping a sensible gap so your space isn't abused vs. not throwing the clutch in.
I ordered a MT. For me it's the difference between driving and being driven. I think when I get older I will eventually love an AT for ease of use and now gas mileage.