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Originally Posted by Ashikabi
Why does she have to dress modestly? I think we already went over a comparable situation replacing her with me where I would do the same thing but we knew my motives. We don't know hers or why the video exists. Maybe she goes to the gym in a wife beater and sweats but she "dressed up"for this video. We simply don't know
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She doesn't have to, but when you dress and act a certain way it sends a message. Of course it can be unintentional, but when cues start to add up it becomes damning. There are plenty of women in my gym who dress like that, but don't act like that. Much like the tattoos they send two messages that cancel each other out. This lady sends the double negative vibes so there is evidence, slight, yes, but still evident that she is nursing a need to have people look at her. There's nothing wrong with that if that's who she wants to be, but when you act that way then get upset when people treat you that way, that's ridiculous. The guys in the spaghetti T shirts screaming through every rep and acting douchy get the same.
Yes, we established you are a show off. You see nothing wrong with it, I do, but we agree that you are so there is no conflict. Of course you like her, she's you.