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Old 04-26-2016, 12:30 PM   #9155
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It would be like a weekend thing. He doesn't live very close to me, so she'd come to see me for a couple of days just to hang out. We're still very much good friends.
In that case, to be fair to your question, if the hubby doesn't mind there is nothing wrong on the surface in-and-of-itself. However, since you obviously have the hots for her on your end, that's probably why you feel guilty. Which makes it a tough situation for you. If she comes on to you, you probably can't resist, and if she doesn't you will be disappointed like @Tectoniic said. So there is no winning really unless you truly just want to be friends or you hope she does bang you don't give AF about the dude. At least you'll know better than to marry her in that case.

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