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Old 04-18-2016, 04:24 PM   #63
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Originally Posted by shattered_memory View Post
LOL what? I'm just trying to help out by giving my opinion on it. My car is sensitive to the wind, but I don't feel unsafe. I'm sorry you took it the other way, but I'm genuinely trying to provide feedback.
The last sentence was assuming he is unsatisfied with how the car's driving profile/characteristics were. It also underpins an assumption that you don't think he's worried there is an actual problem, and it's just how the car handles and therefore you're sorry that he's not as satisfied as you are. That isn't genuine feedback

Again with the 'I'm sorry you...'

Those types of statements give us the assumption that you're overly sympathetic or not truly sympathetic at all and trying to underline that there are different beliefs at play- and not an actual problem. In the worst case, one can take away feelings that you're simply being plain ol' passive aggressive. Just giving you some honest feedback.

The rest of the bit was ok though.
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