Hi notout86,
Just got back from my 6 weeks holiday, but I did it before i left!

I used 3 normal 5-pin relay harness (not a board as I've never used a board before), and did put a diode in as per my second question, and it works perfectly. Also credits to the last diagram posted by greencounty! Haven't had a black and white signal yet as well. Cheers guys!!
So DiodeDynamics LED-puddle side-mirror folding at fob lock, parking and foglights on with timer at unlock, music RGB footwell and speaker lights, plastidip emblems and fender.. next is the blackvue camera with cloud.
I'm in Melbourne and I will be keen to share ideas and help, let me know.