Thanks for the advice, everyone. Going against the vibe here and getting black STI rims
I'm horribly anal about these types of things. Over the 15 years I owned my last car, my wife drove it once, my boss once (long story), oil change at the dealer never, and when I let Discount Tire work on it they lifted up by the exhaust manifold and broke a bolt off. Comes from a prior life as an ASE mechanic working at Sears. Too many stories...
Now if I can just stay alive until Tuesday I'll be back in business.
I had the body shop send me a picture of the frame "damage" which amounts to a little dent:
