First of all:
I want to tell you that the way you are treated is
direct reflection your attitude. Sales people make money selling, they sell by treating you right, so think about it. Why would they treat you like garbage if you didn't ask them too with your attitude?
I sell Toyotas and Scions. And I can tell you there has been almost no training or info on the FR-S passed on to us. So if your dealer isn't into the car, then they prolly don't sit on here reading about it all day like we do. It's not their fault they haven't gotten any info on it yet.
Next, we meet a lot of people everyday. It can sometimes be a hassle to remember every single one. Your first sales person may have gotten caught up in a sale, which can take hours as I'm sure you know, after you and not had a chance to add you, then forgot. It happens, it doesn't make them a shitty person.
You also have to understand it from their point of view. You came in asking about a car that he doesn't know anything about, [because it's not out yet] to include when it will be available for you to drive or buy. And as far as the $5k deposit - thats because they most likely get a lot of kids or whatever that ask about it and want to lead the store on and waste their time, so they put a rediculous deposit amount on it so that only someone who is truly serious will bother. - Personally I don't agree with this, but that's prolly why they said that.
There were a couple other things in there that were pretty annoying/offense to read but, the last thing I'll mention is the thing about the Avalon.
I have never seen an Avalon, much less a "fully equipped" Avalon for that price. If you really saw a loaded Avalon for that price, you better go back and buy it like, yesterday, because it's worth about $40,000.

Got my flame suit on.