Update :
So i made it to the shop (20-30 min drive) With the shaking and thumping getting worse and worse.. tires basically were completely loose by the time i got there.
Got my entire suspension taken off and the new coilovers put in. everything was secured with an impact gun and i drove off.
The problem is... the thumping is kind of still here... it is very minor compared to before and only on certain areas of the terrain. For example i was driving over pavers in the entrance of my neighborhood ( gives your car a little rumbling sound when you drive over it) As you may know they have little dips in the pavers so it works your suspension a little bit.
When i drove over those the thumping sound was there, and on other portions of the road i hear it. I don't know if anything could be loose still? maybe the strut towers? thats the only thing he dident use an impact gun on.
Please help

i love the look of the new coils and the drive is not that much worse. Except for this terrible thumping sound.
With the coils :