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Originally Posted by Rocket.BRZ
That doesn't make much sense. Why would anybody want the douche bag if they are only good for one thing. You would think in the long run the nice guy is the right choice. (Look at the divorce rates) I thought that always being the nice guy was the secret back door. And yes I admit that dumping my emotions was not the best idea at the time but what's done is done. I've seen so many friends get knocked up and have the boyfriend leave in search for another. Guess who they want to talk to. Me.
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They don't want douchebags. They want someone who is fun, exciting and can make them wet. If the guy also is kind, honest and stable, she wins.
Women want it both ways. And a lot will end up getting one from one guy and one from another.
She is emotionally 'cheating' on the exciting guy when she hangs out with the 'friendzone' guy.
And 'happily' married women in good relationships with nice guys cheat on them all the time. (The divorce rate you mentioned...)
So what you need is to meet a woman that gets fulfillment of these two aspects from you. Either adjust yourself, meet a different more compatible woman, or a mix of both.