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Originally Posted by cfusionpm
Exactly. It's all about what they find attractive. And what a teenager or early 20s finds attractive is usually douchebag swag instead of kindness and responsibility. Luckily, I'm pushing 30 and have long since passed that, but all those stereotypes exist for a reason, because they happen more often than not.
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I wouldn't say that it's the 'douchebags' they find attractive. It's also that they recognize that 'niceness' is often a cover for sexual insecurity/inexperience.
It's at least a 50:50 split for the responsibility. She's going to be at least as equally unattracted to the insecure guy.
If one guy is obnoxious, but can fuck. And one guy is nice but can't fuck, who's she going to hang out with and who's she going to fuck? It's simple really. There isn't even a choice to make.
The problem is the 'nice' guys expect sex for being nice (as Morpheus has aptly pointed out) and blame the women rather than looking at themselves.