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Originally Posted by Dimman
The thing in that meme that is missing is the unspoken 'and also get me wet'.
What guys who believe in and promote 'the friendzone' excuse miss here is that women like to fuck, too.
If she's not attracted to you, no amount of nice is going to fix that.
Same thing if you are so hung up on being 'nice' that you refrain from any talk or behavior about sex around her, out of 'respect'. You are indicating to her that you are sexually boring. She will hang out with you, but go out and fuck some guy that excites her.
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Exactly. It's all about what they find attractive. And what a teenager or early 20s finds attractive is usually douchebag swag instead of kindness and responsibility. Luckily, I'm pushing 30 and have long since passed that, but all those stereotypes exist for a reason, because they happen more often than not.