I know dat feel. What i did is add up all the parts im gonna need for FI. Everytime i want something i just look at it and tell myself if i get it thats XXX $ further away im gonna be.
If that doesnt work look at some build threads or shop cars. Thousands in parts, stocknor near stock power.
If all you care about is a nice looking ride and not power then i dont know how to help you