| sapphire |
06-19-2012 02:43 AM |
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Originally Posted by djjd42
(Post 265442)
Since you are referring to me: Not sure how to put this best, but suffice it to say that I have enjoyed answering plenty of questions about my cars over the years, had great conversations, let strangers hop in, etc. I have done so both when out and about in the neighbourhood and when displaying my cars at shows. I see no conflict between these things and not wanting a shop inviting the public to come check out my car when I am not around. I wasn't kidding when I said I've had cars damaged while in shops. I wish I was kidding but, frankly, people don't take the same kind of care when the owner is not around, and that lack of care has cost me time and money. If that makes me "weird" or whatever this thread wants to call me next then I sure as heck don't want to be normal.
Suffice it also to say that when I receive my car I will eagerly join the active community and I certainly won't be hiding it from the world. People just won't be getting unnecessary access to it when I am not around, that's all. I am quite honestly not sure how that seems odd to some.
EDIT: I have returned to this thread to check up on it regularly because I didn't want to be the type to post and run. That said, checking up on the thread has become a drag and honestly reduced my enjoyment of this forum somewhat. I'm kindly taking my leave of this thread. If for some strange reason someone wants to speak with me about what I have said here, PM me.
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Everyone is entitled to dictate what they want to do with their own car. It IS your car, you paid for it. Frankly, I agree with you. I personally know plenty of people who work at dealerships and shops. Lot boys, sales reps, etc., with the exception of some respectful people, most would not really give a damn about any car when the owner is not around.
This is my first "brand new" car, and I feel that I have to more careful with it. Yes, a car is meant to be driven around and sat in, but that doesn't mean that I can't avoid normal things like getting door dings from parking on parking lots and getting the paint around the door handles scratched from wear.. you know? =/
Plus being a woman I am getting stigmatized for most likely not caring about anything about my car. Sucks, but that's the way the cookie crumbles. Hope I can be different, that's all.
Having said that, I understand why being on a thread (let alone a forum) can be drag. This is why I don't comment, I just read. But I'm hoping for miracle that people would be respectful and decent this time around.
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