I was more or less speaking about the ones that don't dint tell you what's on their mind and always seem to go both directions when it comes time to choose.

I know not everyone is the same and is wrong to generalize.. so for that I.am sorry

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Those are girls. You don't want to date a girl, you want to date a woman.

Most females my age are still." Girls" lol.



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I am going to go against the grain, you are just the fill in guy while her bf is away. Nothing wrong with that if you are just friends.

Reminds me of should'a, could'a, would'a. Instead of waiting for what might happen, pose the question directly to her. What will happen I don't know but something will and someday down the road you won't regret not clearing the air.

My current fiance and I made it 9 months while she went to go do gymnastics for college in Fullerton CA while im way over in Jacksonville FL. It went smooth as hell thanks to Skype and I even flew out halfway through for 4 days. My biggest regret was not going to see West Coast Customs which was only 12 miles away from where she was staying lol. She came back and weve been living together 3 years without a problem.

You need to let her know your feelings. Nothing wrong with that, see how she reacts and what she thinks. Maybe she only has the other boyfriend because she doesn't know anybody else she would like to hang with but maybe that person is now you.
A relationship that is meant to last is based on honesty and trust. Nothing wrong with telling her that you are trying not to break up what she already has but that you have feelings for her, should be known to her.
Saying nothing might just leave you with the same.
But, what the hell do I know since I've been married for almost 40 years now and I might have forgotten some of the basics of dating.

When the time comes, you're gonna have to man up and tell her how you feel about her. Be smart about it. Don't go through life in regretting on not knowing about "if." That will eat you up and linger in the deep pit of your soul.
If she's everything you say she is, then she'll either accept it or decline.... but with dignity and respect to keep a friendship because its that much of an importance for her as it to you. Take all that as my simple humble opinion. Good luck. :thumbsup:

paragraphs or get the fuck out

didn't read your wall of text, but remember she's already got one ***** she doesn't need you being one too

Thanks for the input ya'll, I suppose i was one promise too late. I will continue our friendship and just be there to catch her if she ever falls. Mean while i'll do my best to continue living my life and go where ever it takes me.

Don't worry there are plenty girls out there, someone told me that before and I never believe them. But now I know that this is true, the first step is to get over it by talking to as many girls. Just continuing doing what you do and one day someone will fall for you. Hope this helps.

Don't listen to @Kelbyat07 he knows nothing I say!! Lol

Whatever you do don't go out LOOKING for someone, it doesn't work that way. Just gotta be yourself and hang out with friends and meet people naturally. Whenever you try to find someone it usually never works out..

The dude is a teenager.

lol I didn't mean go look for another girl, I meant talk to girls. Talking to other girls will keep your mind away from thinking about that certain person and it will give you boost of confidence that there are many girls out there. Anyone who goes out there and finds a relationship after a recent bad relationship is just asking for another heart break...