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07-20-2015, 05:01 PM | #29 |
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Damn, you guys are harsh! Do keep in mind that people have different living circumstances and try not to jump to conclusions about those. I own my own house and my mother passed away a few years ago. My father was living on his own with my little brother but then recently had a stroke so my wife and I invited him to come live with us. We finished paying for our mortgage last year and we currently don't have any children so far and it's nice to have a two income household.
My father's really old school and we never really got along. But in his old age he is growing more patient but still very set in his ways. I was planning on the "Guys night out" while passively showing him how to drive my cars but was just curious if anyone else had a similar issue and if there were a better way to handle it. |
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07-20-2015, 05:35 PM | #30 | |
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I would think then that at 30 with a paid off mortgage, a two income household and already owning two cars the price of a new clutch would be nothing compared to the risk of destroying your improving relationship by telling him his driving sucks. If he had a stroke he is probably driving to the best of his abilities (if indeed he is even as bad as you say with his skills) and possibly shouldn't be driving at all.
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07-20-2015, 05:53 PM | #32 | |
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I'm still firmly of the opinion that he was just figuring out your car, not many people can quickly adapt to driving a car that's different to them not even accounting for a MT. Toss a stroke into the mix? Clutches are cheaper than damaged relationships. |
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But as far as the cost of a clutch is concerned, it's always nice to not have to needlessly pay for something that shouldn't happen anyway. I just don't have the guts to call him out on it. Since he's retired he just usually walks around outside of the house looking for something to do. I'll come home at times from work to find a ladder propped up against the house with him at the top trying to hose the leaves that have cluttered up the gutters. It's very frightening at times. To keep him busy I've purchased some tools to throw in the garage such as a saw and some wood so he can build stuff. He's actually getting really good at it and YouTube has become his best friend. Besides, I know it's heresy here but, I like keeping my cars as stock as possible. (Hoping they become rarer in the future? IDK?) |
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Don't be so hard on your dad. He had to teach you how to use a toilet; telling you that ain't fun, so maybe a bit of tolerance is in order? |
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Absolutely. If I wasn't trying to be sensitive about it I probably wouldn't be here asking you kind folks about this situation. Otherwise I would have just taken the keys back and said "Stay away from my cars. I saw how you drove it!"
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Just curious, are you Asian OP? Traditionally, they are afraid of confronting parental figures. Otherwise, you have made a significantly amazing troll thread.
In before I'm racist, I'm half Asian.
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Haha, yep. Asian as hell. Probably should have mentioned this right off the bat. There is definitely a huge social generational difference and confronting parents about these types of things are a big deal to them. I consider myself a very frank person and am usually not shy from telling people how I feel but when it comes to the 'Rents you gotta walk them egg shells. LOL!
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In all seriousness though, if he's only driving it once a blue moon I don't see no need in saying anything. These clutches are pretty strong, a few times of slipping or grinding isn't going to destroy it by any means.
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After readin this thread i called my dad for make a day "dad and son". Will consist in drinking some beers watch a baseball game and why not drive my frs. I miss him
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