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I liked reading that I'm trying to wrap my head around this in a way that doesn't leave me hating women. That is nice to hear your take. |
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Guys can hold out and fantasize that after years of banging 'douchebags' that she will become emotionally shattered, 'learn her lesson' and come back crawling to the 'nice guy' and live happily ever after. But it doesn't work that way. It's not even healthy to think that way. But I've met a ton of guys who do. One person's stoic devotion is a step away from another's awkward obsession. To say that it's the girl's fault for emotionally dumping on the guy is also not looking at his fault of doing the exact same thing by being the other half of these friendzone relationships. Guys in that position seem to think that by participating in these emotional bits that it is a secret back door to a proper relationship. It's not. Other guys seem to actively pursue these 'friendzone' relationships for the purpose of having any relationship at all, instead of taking the risks involved in pursuing a real one. You can't lose if you don't play. But you can't win either. And nobody bats 1.000...
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07-06-2014, 06:39 PM | #89 | |
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That doesn't make much sense. Why would anybody want the douche bag if they are only good for one thing. You would think in the long run the nice guy is the right choice. (Look at the divorce rates) I thought that always being the nice guy was the secret back door. And yes I admit that dumping my emotions was not the best idea at the time but what's done is done. I've seen so many friends get knocked up and have the boyfriend leave in search for another. Guess who they want to talk to. Me. |
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Sometimes, I am the good guy. Sometimes, I am the guy who would be happier with the plain friend who happens to be a girl, but I keep going back to the stupidly hot lunatic. Sometimes, I am the "Bad Boy" that the girl who is only attracted to. Your story is not unique. The sooner you grow up and participate in your life the better. I wish you luck man. You are only 18, and hopefully one day you look back on this and laugh. I still do. |
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Women want it both ways. And a lot will end up getting one from one guy and one from another. She is emotionally 'cheating' on the exciting guy when she hangs out with the 'friendzone' guy. And 'happily' married women in good relationships with nice guys cheat on them all the time. (The divorce rate you mentioned...) So what you need is to meet a woman that gets fulfillment of these two aspects from you. Either adjust yourself, meet a different more compatible woman, or a mix of both.
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I don't want people to read that and think to hate women. I need to rewrite it in parts if that is the case. I simply meant to say that one needs to be himself, focus on himself, and let the chips fall as that may. I used to get frustrated at times and then would just divert my attention toward my studies/career. It all worked out. There should be no animosity toward women. Some just are screwed in the head. The process is more of an experience to learn to identify those kind of women and avoid at all costs. To save yourself the time and heartache. Let me know if that helped clear up my aforementioned post. Cheers!
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Anyway, the point was to not be a douche and expects reciprocation, then ignore her because you didn't get what you want. Sounds like a shitty way to treat a long term friend. Be a friend and emotionally/romantically detached but give good analytical replies if she confides in you, rather than blowing your mind apart with bouts of internal emotional breakdowns. You don't do that with friends that has a wang so why do it to/with friends that has a hole instead. Basically, much better to be mature and a good sport about it. Or, ignore her and be all butt hurt, says more about ones character than anything else though.
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Are you extra nice to her because you have feelings for her? How old are you?
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How are you going to get in "the secret back door" (anal?) if you've never even flirted with her? Even if she does end up looking for a nice guy, why would she go out with you since you have showed no interest? You need to learn, being nice isn't showing interest, it's just being nice.
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I'm 18. And no I don't think I've been extra nice to her in any particular way but I do take extra time out of my life to listen to her and be around for her than I would with most people. But I do enjoy helping people to the best of my ability.
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Speaking of disastrous relationships, haven't heard from Ocean Girl in a while.
I guess that cop she was talking about must know how to handle his nightstick, or gun, or whatever other pen!s euphemism I can't come up with... Heh...
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